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We all need resources! My goal is to provide a brief discussion of trauma and spirituality.


Parts of Self 101: Parts at War
Hey Family, we are finishing out our brief introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS). If you haven’t already, please take time to...
Aiden Gober
Oct 33 min read


Parts of Self 101: Core Self, Exiles, Managers, & Firefighters
What are Parts? We all have a family on the inside . Our inner family is reflective of many of the family dynamics on the outside of a...
Aiden Gober
Sep 264 min read


Guest Blogger of the Week-Thanksgiving Blues: Finding a Path through the Fog with Sara Felushko
I asked Sara to write a blog to address the holiday blues especially since the holidays are fast approaching. I want to thank Sara for...
Kyle Spears
Nov 21, 20225 min read


The Blame Game
As many of you know, I frequently talk about holding two things together as true at the same time or holding a “both-and”. I almost...
Kyle Spears
Aug 19, 20227 min read


The Vulnerability Dilemma
Over the last year or so I have received countless emails and requests to address trauma that occurs in the church. I have to admit, I’ve...
Kyle Spears
Aug 11, 20225 min read


Pleasant Places for Dating and Engaged Couples
One article could not possibly grasp the depth of insight needed for dating and engagement! If you are beginning to read this article -...
Kyle Spears
Dec 29, 20218 min read


A Multicultural Perspective on Purity Culture
I hope this helps you put words to feelings and experiences that have been sitting in your mind and heart rent free. After watching...
Kyle Spears
Dec 26, 20216 min read


Single, Spiritual & … Sexy? Questions to ask ourselves in pursuit of sexuality and celibacy.
Single, Spiritual & … Sexy? Questions to ask ourselves in pursuit of sexuality and celibacy. Sexual and celibate are not words we often...
Kyle Spears
Dec 26, 20215 min read


Differentiation & Leadership: Differentiation 101
I have been teaching a series at our leader’s meetings focusing on the concept of Self-Determination or Differentiation. When I was in...
Kyle Spears
Sep 1, 20213 min read


Lessons from Sabbath with Steve Payne
Steve is a friend, teacher ,and mentor in my life. Steve helps smaller congregations develop and mature by helping to develop an...
Kyle Spears
Jul 1, 20214 min read

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